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Age appropriate conversations are important because they help children understand the world around them in a way that matches their cognitive and emotional development. By tailoring discussions to their age level, children can grasp complex concepts gradually and feel supported in their understanding. This approach also fosters trust and strengthens the parent child relationship by establishing open communication and promoting a sense of safety and security. Furthermore, it helps children develop critical thinking skills and prepares them to navigate various situations as they grow older.

A few things to keep in mind;

Know their developmental stage – understand the cognitive, emotional, and social development typical for their age group. This will help gauge what topics and information they can comprehend and handle.

Use age appropriate language – tailor your language to the child’s level of understanding. Avoid using jargon or complicated terms and instead use simple, straightforward language.

Listen actively – Pay attention to their questions, concerns, and interests. This will guide you in tailoring the conversation to their needs and level of understanding.

Encourage Questions – Let your child know they can ask questions and express their feelings. Encourage an open dialogue by listening actively and responding with empathy. This can help nurture their intellectual and emotional growth.

Provide reassurance – Address any fears or worries they may have by providing comfort and support. Let them know they can come to you with any questions or concerns and that you’re there to help them navigate difficult topics. Reassure your child that they are safe and loved, even when discussing challenging topics.

Focus on the child’s perspective – Consider how the topic might impact your child and address any concerns or fears they may have. Validate their feelings and offer comfort as needed. Pay attention to their reactions and cues during the conversation. If they seem uncomfortable or disinterested, its ok to pause or revisit the topic at a later time.

Be honest, but selective – Provide truthful answers to their questions, but adapt the depth and detail of your responses to their level of comprehension. Avoid overwhelming your child with information that may be too mature for them to handle.

Follow up – Check in with your child after the conversation to see if they have further questions or need additional support. Let them know you're available to talk whenever they need.

Some topics of conversation can be a delicate process and it's okay to seek guidance or support.

If you are struggling with understanding what is age appropriate conversation for your child or how to navigate conversations in an age appropriate manner please reach out to Heath from Anglicare who is onsite each Thursday or via email at heath.mills@anglicarevic.org.au or phone 0499 007 031